Steps toward Reconciliation

These steps move from less relational transformation to more relational transformation

1. No reconciliation, even if forgiveness has taken place.
2. Possible reconciliation when offender admits culpability.
3. Conditional reconciliation when offender communicates regret for the offense and offers an apology.
4. Processual reconciliation offender attempts to remedy the harm done.
5. Restoration when trust is rebuilt and the relationship is recreated.

 I cannot think of anyone, but my parents when it comes to forgiveness. I have made so many mistakes in life during my growing years just like any other teenager and I remember how my parents always forgave me. I believe my parents forgave and directed me on the right path and it is only their love and blessings that turned in whatever I am today.